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Why can't we just be friends?!
Spoken On Jul 12, 2010. Comment? (0)

I still fail at blogging regularly, but school is starting for me and usually that's when life gets interesting so I'll have stuff to talk about. Right now I'm doing full time summer school and taking on two jobs. It's a lot of work but I'm managing. I think by the end of the month I'll be completely worn out and dead though lol

Yesterday was my first day of work at and it was TIRING! I carried like 50 boxes and my arms are sore from it still. Also, a lot of the people there speak spanish so i was like the left out minority tongue I managed to meet this one guy and we started talking and I ended up working with him because I wanted to avoid carrying more boxes and he was just stocking stuff. I know I'm lazy haha I think I now take my library job for granted because retail is not really my type of work environment. Anyways, we started talking and getting to know each other then suddenly he brought up beer pong and I know a lot about it so we talked for a long time about drinking and stuff. Later on, he said I can ask him if i need alcohol and I said I'd call him (in a joking way). He said I can't do it since I don't have his number and I knew where this conversation was heading lol I made up some dumb excuse about not having time since we were working, but he insisted that we can exchange numbers after work.

So, today we worked again together but i didn't have much of a chance to talk to him since I worked alone basically the whole time and I was with my friend Sheri too. But the times I did come in contact with him I tried to talk to him a bit so it wouldn't be so awkward. He also tried to talk to me a little bit and he even texted me and poked me when he walked past me. And just recently he texted me and started talking about how I should hang out with him and he'll teach me how to skate, which is what he does most of the time XD And he also said if it's not my type of thing we can hang out somewhere else. At first I didn't think much of the situation and today I was telling myself I'm thinking into it too much, but after tonight I'm pretty sure he likes me which is a NO NO no

This type of thing happened with my neighbor too. He asked for my number and I just gave it to him without thinking anything of it. We didn't talk a lot but I remember one time he told me to leave my boyfriend and said I deserved bettter no So I ended up just ignoring him and he got the message and has never talked to me since haha

I wish guys would just wanna be friends. I guess I do kinda lead them on since I reply back and go along with it but it's cause I don't like being mean and I actually do just want to be friends with them. I believe a guy and a girl can be friends without getting into a relationship. But if a guy's motives is more than just friendship (which is like that with all guys probably) that's never gonna happen.

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